Yes i am concerned about my brother.......i can sense can imagine the kind of pressure he must be in.......i know i was under a lot of pressure at that point of time.....i was studying a course which i was not sure if i wanted to do it.......i was in a relationship which should have ended a long time back....i was not very communicative with me family....and all that came out on Vishal...........and now i want reach out to  him.... give him some confidence....but it has to be done in a way which is to be proper...his  emotional health ..... gauge how is he there.....he is not picking up my calls.......there is need not to instruct him him and give him commands  to d this or do that...but a need to illustrate him by a way of story ...my own experience ..and how there is a way to do what u want to do.....help him out there.....how do i talk to him?......how do i explain it to him?  ..which would connect with him...which he would understand......and help him out of his situation..........and because in the space he is in right now...there could be a possibility that an out side person as well as the individual it self may not be ale to understand and know what he truly needs or desires.

I have understood my need  to talk to him...to give him the best chance from my side to help him out......to understand me ..he is my brother...and there have been a lot of side effects of my thinking and happening on him.....i see him not full filling his potential.....something which i have had strong feeling about ....not be able to full fill or own potential....itd not about the studies...it about it....it may take time..but it will happen ... Patience is the key!!!!